Sunday, August 3, 2008

Using the Internet as a Forum or Method for Adult Dating


In this day and age, many find it hard to find someone that can share their passion and love with. With so many people experiencing a hard time with relationships and many have gone through failed affairs, a multitude have given up and just moved on. Adult dating seems so awkward to many because they feel they don’t have the same vigor and charisma that they used to. They pine for their lost youth and feel a bit of insecurity. That should not be the case though, dating is not exclusive for those who are young, and adults have the right to experience love and passion in their life. This is the fuel that makes life a bit exciting and something that can make us look forward to the new day. Adult dating can be easy and fun. You can meet people that share your interests and hobbies. You can find a person that can truly understand your way of thinking and perception of life. If you are afraid or embarrassed you can use the same old methods, using personal ads. But with the entry of the Internet, the personal ad has gone a long way; many people all over the world making your search wider and more comprehensive can now view them. Here are many sites in the internet that offers match making, it can either be for a long term relationship or maybe just for a bit of one night fun. The possibilities are endless. Adult dating services on the net are a great resource for adult dating. They spare you the awkward moments of actual dating but still allow one another to talk without falling on their faces. These sites allow for forums or chats, which can lead to a very erotic experience. With adult dating services, you get anonymity, adult chat, a sex date or maybe the man or woman of your dreams. In starting of, most adult dating website services would ask for some information about you so they could match you up with the right person, you may also include a photo of yourself if you want. Your profile should reflect the real you, names are optional since most use nicknames or aliases; you have to be careful about giving out your details. Try to establish first a rapport with your adult date before you decide you can trust them. Use your imagination to set your personal ad apart from the rest. Be discreet yet be imaginative. Your mission here is to attract attention to your personal ad.Adult dating can be fun and easy with the Internet, this is good especially for those who run a busy life. You can find an adult friend all at the comfort of your home and you don’t need to be shy you will be well hidden behind the cloak of anonymity provided by the Internet you can truly be yourself because you don’t carry the heavy burden of shyness. One of the best things about adult dating in the Internet is it is very affordable. You get a wider each and yet you don’t get the overpowering telephone bills or the travel fees just to meet and talk to someone from far away. You get to pick from a multitude of people even for whatever sexual preferences you have. Forget about the hefty bar tabs and the dinner bills talk or chat the night away and when the time is right, you can personally meet each other and have the time of your lives. With adult dating in the Internet, your nights won’t get so lonely anymore.

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

An Apple on Your Head. Relationship Physics

Attempts to describe the differences and similarities of men and women have been made by philosophers, church leaders, and day-time TV. All have failed. A failure to understand the relationship laws leads to separation and ultimately divorce.Our ancestors lived in trees, we evolved. Sort of. After centuries of development men still tend to hunt and gather. Men still consider their role to be the provider, to bring home the clubbed furry thing for lunch. Do women still select their mate for his physical prowess? "Him big, make good hunter."Women still tend to nurture and play their supportive role in our homes now on the ground and made of sticks and stone. It is women who have this unique ability to bear more hunters. It is women who still prepare the dead furry thing by combining it with organic matter plucked form the earth. Do men select their women based on physical child bearing attributes? "Big things, make good mother."Anthropologists have offered indisputable scientific proof that men and women are different, and have evolved according to some kind of physical law, have evolved according to some cultural rule. They tell us men and women have behaved much the same since the beginning. So by now we should have it all figured out. Men and women should live in their cave and form a bond, based on their primitive need to please the other and to protect their symbiotic relationship.If it were so, then how do we account for the divorce rate? How do we account for the thousands of unhappy marriages? Sir Isaac Newton, a 17th Century scientist, might explain it using his laws of physics.1. "An object at rest tends to stay at rest and an object in motion tends to stay in motion with the same speed and in the same direction unless acted upon by an unbalanced force."Soccer mom drives the SUV from field to field and will continue to do so unless she is interrupted by a stationary object called a tree. Cooking and cleaning mom tends to continue cooking and cleaning unless she has to rush aerobics class, or pick up the kids. Working man tends to stay at work unless he is interrupted with a request to show up before the diner is cold, and bring home a loaf of bread. TV man tends to stay at rest unless the game is over and has to use the sandbox, or is out of beer, or both.2. "The acceleration of an object as produced by a net force is directly proportional to the magnitude of the net force, in the same direction as the net force, and inversely proportional to the mass of the object."Most people think of this as dropping bricks and feathers from tall buildings. It's really a reference to the relationship habits of man and woman. See, back in the 17th century, and anthropologists will agree, women were considered to be objects, and men the force.If you read the 2nd law again it would be:She moves faster to her mother or to her lover when he pushes her harder. Or, he pushes her by doing nothing at all, especially around the house on weekends when he claims that he needs to rest so he can continue to work and earn money so she can have the SUV to take the kids to soccer and ballet and swimming and rush home to cook and finish the laundry and be ready for sex when he is finished playing on the computer and gets an erection.3. "For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction."This simple writer firmly believes and affirms that Sir Isaac's third law explains just about every relationship thing between man and woman.This physics law, this law of nature, this universal man-woman law, explains what is going to happen to him when he forgets her birthday. It also explains why she get's him exactly the right colour cover for his golf clubs, or the right size shirt with the button down collar that goes with his pants that she gave him last month.The third law also explains why she reacts the way she does when he brings her flowers. Or phones her when he will be late. Or doesn't forget her birthday. Or takes her to dinner, or takes the kids to soccer so she can have a rest. Or gives her a hug. Or stops what he is doing, or not doing, and simply listens to her.Or says, "I love you" and means it.

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